Comments on: Getting Pregnant after a miscarriage

By: Lexi

Lexi — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 17:21:40 +0000

i was on my 7 weeks and 6 days last april 26, i miscarried last may26, felt sad to know that my baby didn’t go through the phase of developing, for a month after my 1st prenatal check-up..it was so hard for me to accept that my little angel have to leave us so soon, but as the doctors said, i just need to wait for 3 months and we could TTC again. I hope God will answer my prayers and grant me another baby to complete my 3 years of marriage with my husband…I hope and pray for all of us on the same situation…just keep the faith and trust that God moves in His mysterious, he will give us hope even if there’s no more hope…and be positive always… God Bless to all!

By: Natural Pain Relief

Natural Pain Relief — Thu, 03 Jun 2010 16:27:32 +0000

Hope everything works out great for you and your family.

By: Jess Z.

Jess Z. — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 17:34:32 +0000

Hi Mommy Wishes. Good to hear you are trying again. No I will not try IUI. We have both agreed that if we are not able to have a child naturally then we are just not meant to have one. I wish you the best of luck.

By: Mommy Wishes

Mommy Wishes — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 02:17:15 +0000

Hi Jess, sorry I havent been out here in a while. We just started trying again and I’m looking forward to getting a positive pregnancy test. I’ve been trying not to get so excited and obsessive about becoming pregnant again, but I cant help it. We did recently find a new Doctor and we LOVE her! She’s awesome and totally understanding…..because we want a child so bad, she asked if we wanted to go about it agressively…of course I said YES! Now it’s just a wait and see game.
Jess – since your husband has a low sprem motility, are you going to try IUI?

By: Jess Z.

Jess Z. — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 17:46:05 +0000

Well, we just found out that my husband has low sperm motility. This could be why we have not been able to get pregnant after my July miscarriage. My tests all came back normal. So I’m praying that since we were able to do it once that we can do it again. And I’m also praying that if we are blessed enough to do it again that my body will keep the baby this time. Best wishes to all.

By: Shannon

Shannon — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 13:40:03 +0000

Hi Sarah,

Every doctor is different. After my first miscarriage my OB told us we could start trying after one normal period. If it doesn’t seem like a normal period for you then I would wait one more cycle.

I wish you lots of luck and I hope this helped!

By: Sarah

Sarah — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 14:29:54 +0000

I had a miscarriage about a month ago. I was about 6 wks. I had a huge tear in the placenta called a subchorionic hematoma. They said that it was just something that happens sometimes, but it was nothing that we did or could have prevented and would probably never happen again. My doctor said that once my levels were below 2, we could try and get pregnant again. About two weeks after my miscarriage my levels were at 4 so two weeks later they had me come in again and this time my levels were below 2. My husband and I were excited that we could start trying to get pregnant again, but then the nurse who told me my results said we should wait until I have atleast 3 normal cycles. We don’t know what to do. I really want to try and get pregnant again, but don’t want to get pregnant too soon and have another miscarriage. Does anyone have some input to how long they waited before trying to get pregnant?

By: Jess Z.

Jess Z. — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 16:30:03 +0000

Shannon,

I’m sorry this has happened again. It’s really not fair for you to have to go through this a second time. It’s not fair for anyone to have to go through this. It does feel like a punishment, doesn’t it. But it’s my understanding that God doesn’t punish us. I know it’s hard to feel otherwise. I thought I must have been Hilter in a past life or something.
One positive is to realize that you can get pregnant. Many woman cannot. Hopefully you will find what is causing this and it will be corrected. Try and keep your positive attitude. I know it’s not easy and my heart is just breaking for you. I don’t think I could handle it a second time around. But I guess you just have to deal with what life gives you.
I’m waiting on my U/S results and hoping they are ok. Im also excited for my mini-vacation starting Thursday so me and the DH can get some much needed time away together. Hopefully that helps!
I wish you the best of luck and you are right, WHEN (not if) it finally does happen, it will be woth it!

By: Shannon

Shannon — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 09:46:41 +0000

Hi Jess Z,

I was so excited when I found out we were pregnant. I figured this must be it. Six days after we found out I miscarried. I am just devastated and i can’t believe this has happened again.

My doctor is going to have me wait one normal cycle and then send me for blood work. This rules out any immune disorders. I am also going to start taking progesterone the next time I have a BFP. I just pray something works. I can’t go through another one. Its such an emotional roller coaster. My hormones are so out of whack and I am just so angry! It feels like your being punished. My husband and I are trying so hard to stay positive but its just hard.

I wish you the best of luck. Keep trying! I don’t know why God is making us go through all this but I do know when it finally happens it will be worth it!

Keep me posted on how your doing as well. Good luck!

By: Jess Z.

Jess Z. — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 12:24:44 +0000

Hi Shannon. I’m sorry for your loss. I appreciate the encouragement. I feel like I need more and more lately. I just found out we failed to conceive again. This is are second month of trying since the miscarriage. It’s heart breaking and I’m getting very frustrated and just want to give up, but I know I won’t. I am happy to hear you are pregnant again. I do believe you will have a happy and healthy baby. Try and stay positive.
I myself, am getting an ultrasound next week and will be asking for the fallopian tube test as well. My husband may have finally agreed to get himself tested (fingers crossed). I also set up a weekend getaway for us around ovulation time next month. I will definately try your prayer. I have been praying to God and St. Gerard. St. Gerard is from the Catholic religion…I’m not catholic..but we all believe in God right? I’m willing to try whatever it will take. I never dreamed this would be so hard.
So I say good luck to you and keep us posted.